Promises

promises are made to be keep, not break. at least that's how i define it in my mind. if you really know me, i always keep my words for any promises i made. i try my best to never break any of them. i dislike ppl whom make promises that they knew they can't keep. i mean wat is the pt to make fake promises all the time? fake promises will only bring disappintment to others...if u gonna make fake promises to someone, plz think if someone is doing that 2 u...how would u feel? it's as simple as that.

Quote of the day: Never promise more than you can perform.

Can't Complaint...

i can't complaint about all the things that happened so far. it can and could be worst or better. each time when something bad happens, i try to think about the ppl in the 3rd world countries. this way i will feel a lot happier becuz of wat i have now. there are ppl out there in other countries that are far more worst than urself. plz be grateful of wat you have now!

Quote of the day: In daily life we must see that it is not happiness that makes us grateful, but gratefulness that makes us happy.

Relationship

a relationship should bring sweetness and happiness. two most important things in a relationship is trust and honesty. once you lose both of them, ur relationship is over. of course, u would need more than those two things. u would need care, love and compromises, which builds a good foundation of a successful relationship. at least, that's how i think about it. there are many other human elements that factor into it. if ur current relationship gives u sadness, i suggest u to talk to ur other half and try to solve it. if it doesn't work out, u should end it. i mean a relationship that brings many sadness should never continue on. if u are in a relationship now, plz cherish it. it's very hard to find someone u love.

Quote of the day: It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.

Hope

Hope...a word that i would define it as my main driving force. it is hope that continue on with my life. i can't imagine how i would be if i had no hope in my mind back then. now days, i bring hopes to others by helping them when they are needed like giving blood and volunteering.

One of my friend's blog stated "hope brings breaking heart, so I rather not have hope". I totally disagree with her. It's too pessimistic! Life is full of surprises; some may bring happiness and others may bring sadness. We all should hope for the best and expect the worst. This way you will never be disappointed!


Quote of the day: When things are bad, we take comfort in the thought that they could always be worse. And when they are, we find hope in the thought that things are so bad they have to get better.

who am i? [long entery]

back then, i use 2 ask myself "why xyz happened to me? wat did i do to deserve this?"...now days, i learned how to accept the fact and carry on with life. altho, from time 2 time, my brain seems 2 remind myself these things. i tried very hard 2 purposefully 4get them. don't ask me wat they are cuz some things are better off being left unsaid...maybe that's y i rarely smile these days...of course, i always try my best 2 help others, whom needs and deverses my help. u ask me y? the reason behind that is i truely understand the feeling of no hope, esp when u needed help, no one is giving u the helping hand...i been through that kinda situation myself.

i know some ppl would balance themselve on wat they did and wat they are getting from it. i am not those kinda person. i am a straight to the pt person. i don't like to play mind games and take advantages over others. u probably think "how the heck u gonna survive in this cruel world?"...let's say thats who i am. i don't need and care how others look at me. as long as i know wat i am doing is right, i will continue to do.

Quote of the day: When I hear somebody sigh, "Life is hard," I am always tempted to ask, "Compared to what?"